I’m Dr. Tristan Sophia
Life Coach for Soul-Centered Women
For the woman wanting to courageously create a life she loves
I coach soul-centered women to stop holding themselves back, so they start living true to themselves and create lives they love
How do you transform your life?
Through your mindset
More About Me
My “dr” title comes from being a psychologist almost 20 years before transitioning to the rewarding work of life coaching.
I coach soul-centered women to get the mindset needed to claim their space in the world so they create a life they love. My transformational journey of surviving and thriving after bullying, depression, and alcoholism created my passion to inspire women to stop wasting time in self-doubt and fear and get into courageous action to achieve their soul’s desires.
I live in gorgeous Montana with my hubby and 3 (and counting!) rescue pups. I lived in Los Angeles for many years, all over the Southwest, and several places in Montana before I finally found my forever spot.
Lovely, I’ve been where you are…
I achieved a lot in my career and innocently assumed the online entrepreneurial space would be like any other goal I’d tackled. Except, gulp, it wasn’t.
And the only monetary cost I thought I’d have was a website (oh you naïve girl!).
When I didn’t experience the quick success I’d anticipated, I fell into self-doubt.
Wth? I’d had the self-discipline, hard-work ethic, and planning/organizational skills to get my doctorate. I’d even earned a scholarship for the highest GPA in my doctoral program. I had 30 years of experience in the mental health field. I built 4 successful private practices. I had a certificate in life coaching and got Board Certified. So, becoming a prosperous online coach? Easy peasy, right?
Yeah, not so much. The results? Few and far between…Enter the self-doubt. And my husband returning from work to find me again in tears.
Wow ~ I couldn’t believe the mean things I was saying to myself (like “I don’t think I can do this,” “Everyone else knows what they’re doing,” and “This was such a stupid decision”).
I had the skills, the solid determination, the unwavering discipline…I had a handful of clients I was giving massive discounts to, but no sustainable results.
Was it possible I still had mindset work to do like I kept hearing was the magic key to life (and biz) success?
I not only learned of the need to invest in myself, I realized I needed to get a bold mindset before I could have my envisioned success.
And that was the turning point for me.
But here’s the magical thing ~ this wasn’t some deep-seated, intense mindset work I had to do immerse myself in for several months.
I already had the willingness to look at myself and correct my limiting beliefs, and I had the laser-focused determination stop wasting any more time and make my biz a success.
So, the mindset results came rapidly.
Getting a courageous mindset was the missing link in me becoming successful in all areas of my life. And work specifically on my scarcity mindset (remember the “massive discounts” noted above?) and mindfulness took me to a whole new level.
This is what happens ~ We’re born with confidence. Then, for a variety of reasons, we stifle it.
Self-doubt, fear of rejection, and people pleasing becomes our new normal (even if we sometimes appear courageous).
We want to be true to ourselves, but we’re missing the essential mindset.
Assertiveness is a learned skill. The more you work on getting the necessary mindset, the more you’ll achieve it.
Your courageous mindset will become your new normal.
I coach soul-centered women on their mindset because self-doubt was my biggest struggle and becoming a courageous female biz owner has been one of my biggest achievements. (I even have a tattoo with the word “courageous” in French tattooed on my hip to remind me!)
You can overcome the blocks stopping you from creating the life you dream of.
I can help you become the courageous and healed woman you need to be to do all those tasks you need to do to create the life of freedom you dream of…
To say goodbye to playing small and start taking up the space in this world that you deserve…
To let go of what others think and plunge into a sassier, bolder you who realizes that personal growth is the key to her dreams coming true…
To detach from limiting beliefs and confidently embrace your role as an EMPOWERED woman for all of those whose lives you touch.
How you know if I can help you…
You’re a soul-centered high achiever, but beyond frustrated with the self-imposed blocks keeping you from building your dream life
You’re ready for authentic change and
stepping out of your timidness
You’re ready to move beyond unfulfilling intimate relationships, overgiving, people pleasing, not being true to yourself, and self-doubt
You’re ready to shed your limiting
stories and become the courageous woman
you are deep down, so you can live a life
Fun Facts About Me
I’m skilled in ballet and kickboxing
I believe all dogs should be spoiled rotten ~ my hubby says when he dies he wants to come back as one of my rescue pups
I moved 27 times before I found my forever spot in the mountains of Montana
I green juice (is that a verb lol?) every.single.day after thyroid cancer in 2006 and being inspired by the most lovely Kris Carr
One of my dearest friends found my hubby online for me, then married us 3 years later
My favorite foods ~ huevos rancheros, nachos, and brownies with gobs of frosting
My favorite books for the entrepreneurial journey ~ You Are a Badass (yellow cover) by Jen Sincero, The Prosperous Coach by Rich Litvin & Steve Chandler, and The Law of Attraction by Esther and Jerry Hicks
Perfect meme to describe me ~ “I’m the chick who listens to gansta rap on the way to the farmer’s market from yoga”
Your experiences and who you are is unique:
Your limiting beliefs are holding you back from creating the life you dream of ~ fulfilling relationships where you receive as much as you give, being true to yourself, standing up for yourself, self-care, and boldly claiming your space in the world.
When you get a courageous mindset, you’ll no longer wonder what your purpose is.
I’m the one to help you do that. Once you build new beliefs that no longer hold you back, you can do anything you dream of.